Dear Hoodies: My wife constantly complains about little things that end up causing a fight, what should i do?

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Dear Hoodies readers,
My wife and I have had a lot of rough time in the 4years we’ve been together. Now its seem that everything I do in her eyes I’m being slick or something.
She tells me she doesnt want us to argue but she nags and complains over little issues that end up in a...
Dear Hoodies: My wife constantly complains about little things that end up causing a fight, what should i do?

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NFer Question of the day... One thing you need to look for in a partner

One of the most important qualities to look for in a partner….Every day, a new listicle pops up on our Internet feeds, promising “The 10 Things Women Really Want,” “The 5 Things You Should Look For in a Man,” or “The 7 Things That Make a Great Catch.” Whether oriented toward attracting a partner or how to find a new one—two sides of the same coin—they all list qualities that, presumably, you should seek in a partner. What would that one thing be…? The One thing you need to look for in a partner?

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Touching love story - every husband should read...

Touching love story …A must read!! For those who havent read this before…

When I got home that night, as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to say it. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She shouted at me, “You are not a man!”

That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Mary Anne. I didn’t love my wife anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it to pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said, for I loved Mary Anne so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me, her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell fast asleep because I was tired after an eventful day with Mary Anne. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just didn’t care so I turned over and was asleep again.

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In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month, we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door every morning. I thought she was going crazy.

Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Mary Anne about my wife’s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she has, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefullyfor a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was greying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Mary Anne about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me, she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.

Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. She gestured to our son to come close and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office… jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind… I walked upstairs. Mary Anne opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Mary Anne, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished. Then she touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Mary Anne, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I realized that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until one of us departs this world.

Mary Anne seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The sales girl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote: I will carry you out every morning until one of us leaves this world!

The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build a relationship.

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Dear NFer ladies, would you date a man like THIS?

Would you date a man like THIS?He doesn’t want to work. He doesn’t want to commit BUT he sure looks good. Can he stay?

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Dear NFer ladies, would you date a man like THIS?

Dear NFers men, what would you do if this guy slapped your girl"s butt right in front of you?

Eh, question asked by an American personal trainer. What would you do if this guy slapped your girl’s butt? But keep his size in mind before you answer that question! Hehe! Some men are wicked…I will slap his f**king eggplant so bad…Lol

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Fifty shades of madness! Inside the home of a man married to a sex doll —Take a Look!

Dirk and Jenny aren’t like normal couples. Their sentiments are: to love one another, to support one another and to share a lot of their private time together. The only thing that sets them apart is Jenny is a ‘real doll’ that Dirk bought for 6,000 euros (that’s $6,750).

Dirk and Jenny have a fixed daily schedule. Every evening at 6 pm they are sitting on the sofa watching television

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They have been living together in Dirk’s flat for 4 years now, after Dirk suffered a breakdown from feeling lonely. With Neil Young’s Such a Woman playing, they tied the knot in Dirk’s flat, and instead of a wedding ring, he gifted her a heart shaped pendant on a chain.

What sets their relationship apart from that of simply a sex doll is that Dirk has forged a true genuine relationship with Jenny. He can hear her, talk to her and “perceive her soul”, believing she speaks back.

Documenting the couple’s day to day lives,the photographer, Sandra Hoyn, discovered the 40-year-old man bathed Jenny on Sundays, they wrote a blog together and watched football in front of the TV side by side. Dirk, however,  hasn’t told any of his family or friends, including his child from a previous marriage. When he has guests he conceals her in his bedroom and dims the lights.

The photographer’s biggest challenge, was coming to terms with treating Jenny as the person Dirk sees her to be; to not to just see the doll just as a doll, but to “recognize what the man sees and loves in her”. She actually started to feel her presence, and when Jenny was put in bed for a ‘sleep’, actually felt her voice volume lowering, afraid of waking her.

“I can’t live without love. My loneliness destroyed me.”. Dirk says of his silicone doll. Dirk carrying Jenny into the bathroom. He always has to remove the door so that Jenny fits through. “Jenny is such a sensitive being. She is so helpless.”. He said.

“Jenny gives me security. I never want to live without her again. I am moved from her words. The purity, serenity and honesty of her speaking.”.

“Jenny likes to wear beautiful clothes. But she does not care for brands.” Every Sunday Dirk washes her lace lingerie and wigs.

Dirk powders and massages Jenny’s feet. He cares for her silicone skin every Sunday after bathing to keep it soft.

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Blac Chyna shares sexy pic with eggplant and cherry emoji —Take a Look!

Blac Chyna asked her new man to come get it

The former stripper shared this sexy photo of herself in bed with an apple and eggplant emoji and asked her rumoured new boyfriend, boxer Jleon to come get her. See another sexy pic below …

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Jleon

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From a female NFers reader: My ex-boyfriend got engaged just 3months after we broke up

 

 

From a female NFers reader

Writes Kris

I am totally devastated. I think about all the times we had and I can’t believe this is happening. I broke up with my boyfriend just in March after dating for a 1 year and 7 months. Just yesterday evening his sister who is still on my Facebook posted a congratulatory message to him about his engagement. Apparently he got engaged on Saturday. I buzzed him to confirm about it and he said it was true that if I had been patient, it would have been me. Wasn’t a year and 7 months patient enough? I am so broken. I was hoping we would reconcile, only for me to hear this!! How do I get over this? Thanks to everyone that take the time to read my post!

 

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Response:

Dear Kris, Cherish those memories. It’s hard and painful but you can move on.

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From a female NFers reader: My ex-boyfriend got engaged just 3months after we broke up

Question for the female NFer readers....

 

Often times in a relationship, our love for someone gets tested. Whether it’s the thought of infedility, lack of effort by your partner or whether they still love you the same. Do I stay or do I simply give up? Would you ladies do 90 days for your man? Love is a powerful thing especially when tested.

Now its time to test your limits of love – would you?

Question for the female NFer readers....

Dear NFer readers; I had a snoop on my wife"s phone and you won’t believe what I saw ...

From a male NFers reader

Writes Kevin

I had suspicions that my wife was keeping something from me and may have become bored with our marriage. I am away with work a lot. If you don’t want to die of heartbreak, I think it’s best not to check your spouses phone. I did over the weekend and I haven’t recovered from it. I went through my wife’s phone and I saw a text she sent to her ex, a man she had a baby with where she told him he denied her the fairytale life she’d hoped for. That they would have been so happy together but he decided to chose someone else over her and that their son is a remainder of a great love that could have been but never was. She said she would never stop loving him and hoped in another lifetime, God will give them another chance and he would choose her. She sounded so heartbroken. She’s been married to me for two years and we have a son together. So it means she’s not happy with me and is only with me because the love of her life rejected her? I’m heartbroken. Don’t know how to confront her about this. This is so painful

Response:

Dear NFers reader, rather than snooping on your wife, try a different method for dealing with the problem. Snooping is very bad and can be addictive.

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Dear NFer readers; My wife constantly complains that I don"t do the "little things’ that end up causing arguments

From a male NFers reader

Writes Matt

So my wife and I have had a few bouts over the past couple months (12 months married) about how “the little things matter most”. This concept is not strange to me, as I do sometimes cook, clean, and always get the door for my wife. Problem is though, she’s brought it up on more than a few occasions that I don’t leave her “cute little notes” or “surprise her with cute little gifts”… Translation – I’m not romantic and definitely do not pay attention to “the little things that matter”.

Really got me thinking. And this question has been ringing in my head: is it possible that only women who are getting all the “big things” (food, clothing, and shelter) complain about the little things?

She’s my wife, and she’s not asking for the moon, so I’m going to endeavor to do “the little things” anyways. Just trying to get other women’s take on the situation. Cos I’m just thinking, it’ll be a little hard for any woman to talk about cute notes and gifts if her husband can’t provide a roof or even food.

Dear Matt please don’t forget the “little things” that show love..lol

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Dear NFer readers; My wife constantly complains that I don"t do the "little things’ that end up causing arguments

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